KISS-FM’s morning co-host Kellie Rasberry set off a firestorm of criticism on her Facebook page when she said on the air the she doesn’t support same-sex marriage.
Kellie Rasberry
Rasberry has been a popular figure in the LGBT community and has been the guest celebrity at GayBingo Dallas on a number of occasions.
Her comment was accompanied with the explanation that her belief is related to how she was raised.
The Facebook comments ranged from disappointment to viciousness.
Resource Center Dallas’ Communications and Advocacy Manager Rafael McDonnell said he was trying to contact Rasberry for a clarification.
“Your opinion was not innocuous, it was bigotry, and bigotry is social poison,” wrote Gabriela Equality Valdepeña.
“Man, Kellie, that’s just all kinds of wrong what you said,” wrote Emily Scott. “And your reason was lame. It wasn’t even a reason, just an excuse for you not to think.”
“Just because you were raised ignorant don’t mean you have to remain so,” wrote Paul Jay Ritter, Jr. “People change, and it’s okay.”
Rasberry sent out the below statement that she’s posting on her Facebook page:
“Wow. A lot of anger on my Facebook wall this morning.
“We discuss a lot of things on our show, and the subject of gay marriage came up. Some of you say I was wrong to say anything and that I should’ve kept my mouth shut. However, had I said I was all for it, you’d be the ones giving me virtual high-fives and thanking me for sticking my neck out there on such a controversial subject. So, I stuck my neck out there but just said how I feel about it. I just told the truth about where I am! And it’s like people are fighting over who gets to swing the hatchet.
“And the thing is, I have very seldom talked on the subject. I don’t campaign for or against gay marriage. I don’t boycott, picket, petition or threaten anybody who doesn’t agree with me. In fact, I can’t tell you the last time I’ve talked to anybody about it because the subject simply doesn’t come up that often. I am sure now it will come up more and that is probably a good thing. But when I was asked how I felt about it, I didn’t run from the question and I didn’t lie. I told the truth about how I feel.
“Yes, I had a very religious upbringing. And as a child, you sometimes simply believe what you are taught. And then you grow up. And as I grew up, I questioned a lot of what I was taught. Did I believe as I did simply because of what I was told? Did I believe as I did because of what could be proven in the scriptures? There were some things I was absolutely sure of, but there were other things that fell into a bit of a gray area for me and then some other things that I completely changed my mind on. For instance, there was a time when I thought only Baptists were going to Heaven and I was just so glad that I was one of them! You’ll be happy to know that I have since changed my position on that. No doubt as I grow my feelings on lots of things my change 😉
“But what about gay marriage? I was raised to believe marriage is between a man and a woman and I still lean towards that…but like other thing things that I have changed my mind on this may change as well. No, I haven’t pored over the scriptures to find a definitive answer, but perhaps I should do that now since it’s suddenly become my “issue” But I’m not mad at anybody who thinks differently than I do. Gay marriage is not a chest-thumping conviction of mine but I can certainly understand when someone feels they don’t have full equality that it can and should be for them. It’s something I struggle with because I have gay friends who I love so much that I consider them to be part of my family. And because I love them, I want them to be happy and have a truly fulfilled life and have the same rights as anyone else. That is why my beliefs sometimes can conflict and that is why I found myself changing as I grow. While some of my friends are very passionate about gay marriage, some have not discussed it with me. But even when the subject has come up with them, never has any one of them threatened to no longer be my friend because of it. Not one of them has called me a bigot or accused me of spreading hate. Nobody has ever wished that my daughter would grow up to be a lesbian to teach me a lesson. It’s just happens to be something we don’t agree on, but miraculously, we’re all still friends. I know that our President has similar views as the one I honestly expressed, that marriage is between a man and a woman. He says his views are evolving. Who knows, mine may too. No doubt he has people from the community that disagree with him but I would hope they don’t wish ill of him as we all examine how we feel. Hopefully we ALL continue to evolve.
“I don’t know the real intent of what seems to me to be an attack campaign being waged against me on Facebook. I can’t tell if you want me to apologize, change my mind, quit, get fired, or kill myself. I also realize a lot of you didn’t even hear the conversation, you just heard about it and jumped on the “You’re a hate-filled bigot” bandwagon. If your intent was to hurt my feelings, then congratulations. My feelings were hurt. Did I cry? Yes. A few of you made me cry. Let’s be honest, some of the comments are kinda mean…But I am not coming from a hateful place. I wasn’t looking to seize some opportunity to promote my anti-gay marriage agenda because I DON’T HAVE AN ANTI-GAY MARRIAGE AGENDA!
“But I do want to say this, especially to my friends. If what I said was interpreted by any members of the LGBT community as insensitive or if it was hurtful I so apologize. That would be the last thing I want. I have supported, given my time and volunteered for organizations that are vital to this community. The work that is done by these organizations, like Black Tie Dinner and Resource Center are not just important for the LGBT community but for all of us and as a mother who wants her daughter to grow up in a world absent of hate, I appreciate that.
“To those who know me I trust you know my heart. We all have a lot to learn and I hope we all continue to grow. To those who don’t know me thank you for letting me know how you feel.”
I feel bad for her. Clearly she was thrown into a controversy she did not intend to get involved in, and nobody should be the target of mean-spirited messages by strangers on Facebook.
That said, my opinion on same-sex marriage is evolving as well. As in: any straight person who does not support same-sex marriage is a bigot, and if any of my friends or co-workers do not support marriage equality, I am ashamed to know them.
Kellie and I are pretty close friends. She and I agree on so much it is scary but we also don’t always share the same opinions, the same passions and certainly not the same politics. What we do share is respect. No, I obviously don’t feel the same as Kellie feels about the subject of gay marriage (being gay does that) and I probably need to spend some more time talking to her more about how I feel about it and what it means to me and Mark. She loves us and we s love her. Kellie and I come from similar religious backgrounds. The difference is that she was not struggling with her sexuality in that environment and I was. I had a lot more to undo with how I was “brought up”. Kellie came to Dallas and just embraced people; especially “the gays” and “the gays” embraced her. She has been there for us in so many ways and has so been there for my husband and me, too. We spend holidays together, travel together, laugh together and cry together. Today we cry together. I hurt for that she is feeling attacked. She wont get cover from me on her beliefs on this but she does have my friendship and I have no doubt where she will end up being on this, NO DOUBT. As with all of us, change sometimes takes time. Words do have consequences as she has certainly learned today. Words…just reading some of the ways others are lashing out with their words is embarrassing to me because I although I agree with many, maybe most, of the sentiments I am amazed at the ones that choose to make vicious attacks that are so hateful it is degrading to our community and beneath who we want to be. Funny that people can be so quick to condemn instead of express. In fact, I may need to remember that myself in the future. Thank you Kellie for being an amazing friend to our community and for being willing to listen and to share. I hope some of the very organizations that we support and that you have given your time too have reached out to you. I know they often do when they want your help to raise money…and you are there front and center. I hope they also know how to also be a friend. You are wrong on the gay marriage issue girl and I wont let up till we look back and can raise a glass to toast the fact that both you and President Obama have seen the light on this! But until then, I got your back. Thank you for all the times you have had ours.I’m sure some will think I am biased and today I am…its what friends do. Love…Two Husbands and a Pup
Sounds like she said that she was not “for” gay marriage, which is not the same as being “against” gay marriage. And really? We come at her this hard for saying that she’s not for gay marriage even after the work she’s done for this community in other matters? Shouldn’t we, instead of telling her she’s a bigot or just plain ignorant, try to educate her on the matter? She seems like a decent person who is open to the possibility of changing her views. Let’s not alienate these folks just because they aren’t able to overcome years of anti-gay programming as fast as we think they should.
“If what I said was interpreted by any members of the LGBT community as insensitive or if it was hurtful I so apologize.”
She can’t even just come right out an apologize. She’s pathetic. For all the support given to her by the LGBT community, this is the thanks we get.
I realize the power the microphone has. I sat behind 1 for over 30 years. For her to go on the air and betray the gay community this way is deeply disappointing.
Yes, Kellie, it’s okay for you to practice bigotry against other Americans (some who serve in the military) because your religion taught you inequality is good when you were a child.
I respect Kellie as an advocate of the gay community. She is honest, she admits that this is an issue that she may change her mind on in time. But quite frankly, she’s been raised to believe we are all doomed to hellfire. Give her a break. Give her some credit for being open to having the dialogue. Just because she was raised to believe this way does not automatically make her a “hater”.
Didn’t hear the show so I can’t speak to the context of her comment. I think she put forth a valid defense for the reason why she said what she did. I may not be happy about her feelings, but she certainly has a right to feel as she does. I think people owe her the courtesy of disagreeing in a polite and civil manner.
I can only hope that she rethinks her position in time and comes to support all of us in our fight for total equality. In the meantime, we need to leave room for our ‘enemy’ to become our friend. Don’t kick her or put her down, don’t slam the door in her face. Hate begets hate, be above that.
I’m sorry Kellie isn’t with us yet on understanding we just want to love someone and share our hearts and lives with each other with the same RESPONSIBILITIES and rights she is entitled to. I’m sorry people have said mean and hateful things to her or about her. WE should be glad she’s been honest with us. if we can have a dialogue with her and help her to grow in to support for our rights, then we might win the President and more people.
I can’t believe this BS. Kellie has the right to her opinion. I find it funny that she is getting all this hate from a community that craves tolerance. DallasVoice, I can’t believe you chose this to ride on. You all should be ashamed of yourselves.
It’s always been a long and brutal road on the civil rights journey. Even in Big D! Marriage Equality is the Civil Rights of our time and opinions based on common decency and fairness will prevail in the end. Maybe Kellie and crew can delve back into the discriminatory history of the State Fair in Big D. She’s probably not even aware of that terrible and unjust time.
“It was left to an NAACP chapter in faraway Brownwood to sue and force final desegregation of the midway and eating establishments.”
https://www.dallasobserver.com/2004-09-09/news/laff-in-the-dark/
“I think it’s something that folks will have to work for, but they call the struggle for equal rights a struggle, It took generations for women to become eligible to vote in this country. It took generations for the Civil Rights Act to pass in 1964. It’s going to take some time for this movement to come to fruition also.”
Illinois State Rep. Greg Harris
https://chicago.cbslocal.com/2012/02/09/harris-on-gay-marriage-bill-equal-rights-are-always-a-struggle/
Kellie’s opinion does not anger me. She is in the majority, but the majority belief has often been proven wrong when it comes to these equality issues.
I think it is so cute when local personalities take PR cues from Victoria Jackson. It works too, she will end up with a gig on KLIF or Fox.
Here is what I wrote kellie on her fb:
Hey Kellie:
You are a strong woman. I am sorry to see all these negative stories directed onto you. I know you have the best of intentions for the LGBT community. As a republican who is also a gay man I find myself, at times, in the same guillotine of outspokeness from individuals who seek a more liberal direction.
I understand, support, and defend the constant fight for our community to not only have the born right to marry the individual whom I wish, but to have the federal rights to make decisions that hetrosexual couples are granted through the government. To me, the definition of what I define as marriage as has been destroyed so much in the last decade. Since in most states they do not accept gay marriage, I will point a fact out. With a 50% divorce rate it shows that marriage should only be recognized by the government as a civil union. If you wish to make the step towards marriage, that is a religous belief and should be united within the church. After all in the biblical sense you are joining two hearts with your maker. The only concern to the government should be two social security numbers for tax purposes, while defending your right as a couple to handle the difficult parts in life’s journey. Just letting you know my beliefs!!
I understand where you are coming from and that your views are changing. I know the country will be more progressive over the next decade, and the opinion you shared on the air will only be water under the bridge.
To share a struggle with you that I have had myself within the LGBT is the “T”. Yes, transgendered individuals. I do respect them and will not judge who they want to be at anytime. This much like your view on marriage, it has personally evolved for myself. The reason I struggle with transgender people is because I don’t necessarily understand. But to not understand something doesn’t mean we have to keep our opinions to ourselves. I believe it is how we engage conversation and learn.
Kellie, I personally have seen you active in the LGBT community and I know you will continue to do so with ease. Keep doing what you have been doing and if you are not making everyone happy well then you are just doing your job. This calls for an adult beverage chicka!!
Take care and God’s speed!!
xo,
-Cole
I listen to the show quite often. I am for gay marriage as I am against anything that exists to just segregate people and make them feel “not good enough.” My religious upbringing also taught me that divorce was sinful, but I believe kellies life is probably better now that she ignored that religious rule.
With that being said, this bashing is ridiculous. Kellie has done a ton of positive things for the gay community. I am gay and the stuff that comes out of Kidd’s mouth offends me way more than anything Kellie has ever said or believed in. I have had to change the channel because of how depressed and pathetic I’ve felt after hearing Kidd talk about gay people. I’m not trying to be dramatic, just stating my story. Many a times Kellie is the one to fight him back when he has gone too far and she has been my savior in that regard.
Like some others on Kellie’s page, I do not defend or support her comments, simply because I support liberty, and freedom to marry whomever I choose, and not have that liberty revoked by an opposing force that uses their religion, or moral beliefs to justify marital contracts between two parties. I like many others do not agree with Kellie’s views on gay marriage, nor do I condone the views that any group can support legislation based on the mere fact that they believe it is inherently incompatible with their belief in religion, or societal view.
This is not a religious, or personal belief issue at all, as Kellie would have us to believe — but a legal one. According to our Constitution, which I might remind you does not prohibit anyone from having rights, but only affords them; under the very uniquely American idea that we are endowed with unalienable rights from our Creator. I disagree that we can define marriage in a way that would disavow a group of consenting adults from making a legal, and binding contract, in their state. By Kellie saying she doesn’t believe, or support gay marriage, I would be drawn to the conclusion that she is speaking in a legal tone, not from moral conviction to not partake in gay marriage herself.
I disagree with her GREATLY on her attitude toward gay marriage, and the idea that their liberty should be afforded to them only when the majority “changes their mind” or “evolves.” However, I will defend Kellie’s right to say it, which is afforded to her by the first amendment to the Constitution of the United States, and I will also use the same right to disagree with her to the greatest of my ability.
This “freedom of speech” clause in the Constitution does not mean someone can say what you want and not be held accountable, responsible, or rebutted. I think its time Kellie get over her tears, and hurt feelings, and own up to what she basically said in the eyes of many LGBT listeners, which is plainly: “You aren’t to be afforded equal liberties, or rights under the law as I am.”
I find nothing wrong with Kellie’s opinion. It’s her personal opinion. If you (or anyone) had an opinion that someone else disagreed with, would you want all the negativity Kellie has received? Likely not. Kellie’s response on FB was a mature one. She’s open to learning and growing. And, yes, she can have gay friends and feel as she does about gay marriage. In time, mayber her view will change. Maybe it won’t. Nonetheless, a person’s opinon should be respected and the person loved. If you only love and accept those who agree with you about things, you would be alone with no one in your life. We all disagree on things. Love thy neighbor as thyself. Treat others the way you would want to be treated if you were them.
With friends like her who needs Enemies!!!!!!! We dont have the same platform like her to spew hate like her. I DAMAND THAT SHE BE FIRED!!!!!!!
Wow, I find this amazing. My thoughts lean toward Kelly’s support of the LGBT community appears to have been more of a ratings ploy than actual support. How can you support this community and then pop off with the statement she mad?
It’s like being friends with an african american person but, because you were raised by biggots you make a statement that you aren’t against the KKK. You really like your friend but, sorry, they really don’t have the same rights as everyone else and its “just the way you were raised” and how you think…..but, still keep me on your party list and on the VIP list for all your events….NOT!
Shame shame shame on you Kelly. You “had” much support from the community….good luck replacing those fans.
Do any radio personalities at KISS-FM (a Clear Channel Communications, Inc. Station?) support marriage equality?
Clear Channel’s Anti-Gay Radio Bullying
https://news.change.org/stories/clear-channels-anti-gay-radio-bullying
I just hope the community responds as we should – no more invitations to Black Tie….no more invites to Gay Bingo….she apparently doesn’t need us, and we don’t need her.
I think there are times we should respond with some vitriol (NOM, Santorum, Gingrich, ETC, and their hate). But at these times it might be better to step back, take a breath, and find better ways to change hearts and mind, especially of people who view themselves as allies.
Anti-equality vitriol!
Bain Capital Owns Clear Channel (Rush Limbaugh, Sean Hannity, Glenn Beck, Michael Savage, Etc.)
https://endoftheamericandream.com/archives/bain-capital-owns-clear-channel-rush-limbaugh-sean-hannity-glenn-beck-michael-savage-etc
Kellie suffers from “That’s the way I was brought up” syndrome. A lot of people shape their opinions around “the way I was brought up”. The fallacy behind that reasoning is that children become adults, and adults have the option, liberty and hopefully the ability to think and reason on their own. Hiding behind “That’s the way I was brought up” is a cop out. There are still groups of people who think others can/should be enslaved, because “that’s the way I was brought up”. (Case in point: the Ku Klux Klan). Maybe it’s time for Kellie, along with a lot of other people, to rethink “the way I was brought up”.
So much more for the KISS folks to be discussing over the DFW airwaves! This gay marriage discussion from a KISS employed South Carolinian is a distraction!
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While it saddens me that someone we had considered an ally is not with us on marriage equality, I don’t think it’s a reason we should be wishing her ill-will and asking for her to be fired. She entitled to her opinion, no matter how strongly we disagree with it. However Kellie works in front of a microphone for a living. She knew the can of worms she was opening when she said it. She said that some of the comments have made her cry. If your gonna work in the public you gotta grow a thicker skin girl. But I agree with what BW above said: No more invitations to Black Tie, Gay Bingo, etc. I don’t wish her ill will at all, but if she’s not with us, she’s against us.
As a gay Dad of three kids, who was married and am now divorced, for both the marriage and divorce I had to go through the legal system to do so, not a religious organization/affiliation. People, this is not a religious issue, it’s civil issue (right). What get’s me are those that oppose gay marriage ’cause it’s a religious issue, but have no problems extending the right to marry to an aethiest and agnostics. Where’s the sense in that?
This is just ignorant. My favorite part is the loophole she left herself in the event that future holds a majority of people who support the RIGHT to get married. Sounds like a follower personality waiting to hear back to give her opinion….and even when giving her opinion hides behind a religious precedent. It’s pretty simple from where I’m sitting…saying you are against or do not support another human being’s RIGHTS is what everyone is up in arms about. I listen to Kellie’s show pretty regularly and I’m honestly disgusted by my misjudgement of the personality I loved to hear from. Not every person thought that slavery should end….did African Americans just sit around and hope and pray that the majority of HUMAN BEINGS would get the message that their way of thinking was flawed?? NO….they spoke out when spoken against and, although I do believe that the same right I have to be “out and proud” gives her the right to have her own opinion on the matter, I don’t have the luxuary to sit around and wait for the ignorance to “evolve” (as she put it). It baffles me that she has any friends in the LGBT community at all. Bottom line….rework your thinking, you can have an opinion on anything you wish, but as a radio personality with listeners tuning in, going on record as being against the rights of any other human being, regardless of the “reason”, is ignorant and hateful and that is why you got the response that you did. We’re sick of people like the “Million Moms” going again Ellen, and we certainly don’t need you fueling the fire….
I’m not surprise to see this rhetoric come out of her mouth. She is a very shallow woman.
I have listened to Kellie for several years on the radio and she makes the show. Having said that, her less-than-enlightened viewpoint on gay marriage does nothing to advance the LGBT cause. And what infuriates me even more are the mindless sheep on facebook who are supporting her because poor Kellie is being verbally attacked. Guess what? Unlike Kellie, I can’t marry my partner and get the 1,138 rights that straight married couples can get.So if people are going to be upset, be upset that we gays are second class citizens and will be so for the foreseeable future. If Kellie is a true friend of the LGBT community, she will “evolve” and help us in our fight for equality! Hosting an event for A-list gays is one thing. Speaking out for LGBT rights to marry is what we need!
Isn’t she divorced?
I just checked out her fan page on Facebook. Her religious preference is Baptist (translated: hypocrite–they all are) and her political beliefs are Republican (translated: arrogant and just plain mean). I’d say she fits right into both categories quite well. As for her backpedaling and double talk, she would make the perfect politician. Perhaps she has been mentored by Sarah Palin.
I think you are right, Jeff. I was trying to make the point that she can get married and instantly get all the federal benefits of marriage whereas I can’t. Let’s hope that she and the President come around sooner than later. I am an old man!
As a straight, 30 yr old woman, I am sorry. The laws are what they are on this issue. I completely relate to feeling as though your rights and dignity to everything you stand for being, revoked and denied of their expression and importance. See, I am a Christian and teach my school age Ichildren the same values I practice. Now that my children can’t pray at school. I know not all members of the LGBT are againts Christain or religious beliefs as not all heterosexuals and religious people are against gay marriage. With that said, everytime I hear ppl talk about religious rights, negitively, I dont agree,of course but I also dont verbaly attack them as some have done Kellie. Instead, educating her I believe is most effective, as others will be exposed to the knowledge and not so much the anger and hatred. I try to teach ppl about my beliefs as a Christian and over the years have learned as my grandmother always said “you can catch more flies with sugar than you can with salt”. In my belief, it’s God’s will for humanity to live among each other in peace despite our imperfections and differences; that to me, is absolutely beautiful!
Dallas Radio DJ, Kellie Rasberry, indeed used her microphone to blithely spread social poison. And you can tell, by the many contemptuous remarks made on her page against gay people, that her politely worded venom reached her audience. But there’s another social force called the moral zeitgeist, which is shifting to become more inclusive of LGBTs. And lastly, there is the collective unconscious, where Kellie’s insensitivity, toward a group she purported to support, will be recorded and catalogued. She’ll be faintly recalled as one more duplicitous, petty enabler who slowly came around, just like most will, not through the force of her own conscience, but only when her bigoted notions began to cause her social discomfort.
What I find most troubling is she hangs with gay people, supposedly loves gay people as John McGill said, but does not understand John and his partner’s desire to have a union or marriage? Makes no sense and a marriage has nothing to do with religion. It’s a civil right and the license comes from the government not the church. What if she had a bunch of African American friends and supported their causes and then said she did mot think theta deserved the dames rights as whites. That’s what she is saying. Gays are second class. I have not lived in Texas long and cannot wait to leave the ignorant Gov. And small mindedness. There is a reason marriage equality is predominately a New England, NY, west coast thing.
In her on-air screed, Kellie Rasberry informed us that her religious upbringing leaves her with the belief that marriage is a sacrament to be performed by one man, one woman. She also accused the models for the NOH8 marketing campaign of being a bunch of ignorant, airbrushed poseurs. For the record, my family members and several friends and acquaintances have had their marriage rights -……- once legal and binding — stripped away in California. They’ve taken part in the NOH8 campaign, and we have all marched en masse, and have written our congressional delegation on many occasion. Many of us have lost some skin and endured a lot of verbal assaults for our rights and beliefs in the process — something I doubt (until 72 hours ago, at least) Kellie Rasberry can lay claim to. Frankly, they and I resent the hell out of hearing this sanctimonious crap from some wise-ass, divorced, Republican, Baptist mint-julep-sipper who purports to be an “ally,” while she simultaneously appoints herself to sit in judgement and pontificate on the holy sanctity of heterosexual marriage. That was just incredibly contemptuous of her — not to mention condescending and hypocritical, since she supposedly supported the gay community even as she disparages gay rights. Her arrogant blindless to her own contradictions, coupled with her smarmy belief in the power of her own moral authority and her left-handed apology that we “misinterpreted her,” is enough to make me puke.
I’m as ashamed of her grovelling gay apologists as I am of her.
Prejudice and stereotypical thinking and actions, as shown by Raspberry and commenter Chef Telle, are harmful to all of us including themselves.
It’s clear Kellie thought it was ‘no big deal’ that she opposes gay marriage and that she has been taken aback to learn that it is indeed a big deal to those LGBT folks with whom she professes to be friends or whose audience she has enjoyed and, presumably, wants to continue enjoying. We need to take this as an opportunity to clarify to her and others who feel as she does why publically speaking out against, or privately opposing, our right to be treated with equal dignity in all respects, including in terms of our legal rights, is inconsistent with professing to be our friend. We should be clear with her about the negative impacts we suffer by being denied those rights. And, those of us who identify as Christian should help her understand that she does not have to look on this as a challenge to holding Christian faith.
I wonder how Kellie would feel if her gay friends told her that their religious upbringing taught them that divorced people should never remarry. It seems to me that her gay friends are giving her a pass. How they can be okay with her thinking of them as less-than-equal escapes me.
she likes the gay community for their fabulosity and the fun times. when it comes to the serious issues she quickly abandons us to help her stay cool with her target demo (the bible belt). really fish?
Even before her comments she annoyed the Hell out of me…..