… Dallas drag legend Wayne Smith wouldn’t change a thing. After all the stops and starts, he leaves leaves town reflecting on a career of laughter, music … and a nip slip
STEVEN LINDSEY | stevencraiglindsey@me.com
WAYNE SMITH FAREWELL
The Round-Up Saloon,
3912 Cedar Springs Road.
Jan. 11 at 8 p.m. Free.
Hungdinger, 4000 Cedar Springs Road. Jan. 12 at 8:30 p.m.
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For nearly 20 years, Cher has performed almost nightly along the Cedar Springs strip.
“What’s this?” you say. But oh, yes. With a voice and appearance so convincing, patrons react to her as if she’s the real superstar, not Dallas native Wayne Smith performing what has become his signature role.
Known for being friendly and outgoing to everyone who crosses his path, it’s Smith’s singing prowess that has sets him apart from the many drag performers who lip-synch. He’s a true impersonator and a remarkable performer who has helped define Dallas’ gay scene for the past two decades.
But not so much the future of it. Smith will be missed by thousands as he packs up his bags next week to move with his husband Ben Wilson to Columbus, Ohio. It only takes a quick glance at his Facebook page to see how many lives he’s touched here.
In true Cher fashion, Smith isn’t going gently into his Texas retirement. He’ll give multiple farewell performances, with the final curtains this week at the Round-Up Saloon, Hungdinger and the Drama Room.
But performing isn’t the only major event of the week. Tomorrow, he and Wilson celebrate their third wedding anniversary (they were legally married in Stowe, Vt.); a few days after he turns 50.
“I don’t mind. AA-Freakin’-RP!” he jokes about his age. “It’s wonderful to be this old because I’ve done so much with my life. I had a hit children’s books; I sold 67,000 toys at Neiman Marcus, I had a fashion show at the Beverly Hills Hotel, I had my own salon one street over from Rodeo Drive and so much I can’t even remember. I was even a question on Hollywood Squares!”
Smith left Dallas after high school because he thought Los Angeles would be a better place to live as a gay man.
“I went out there to be the next Bob Mackie. Instead, I ended up working for him, which was great because I got to shop with Cher and hang out with people like Marie Osmond, Betty White and Carol Burnett, which was really incredible.”
One fateful Halloween, Mackie talked him into dressing up as Marilyn Monroe; he won a costume contest with his outfit. From such humble beginnings came the drag legend.
“Somebody approached me from La Cage, the original club in Los Angeles that started the show in Vegas. They were starting a new show at the Fontainebleau Hilton in Florida and they needed a Marilyn.” He also had to come up with a second character; a friend convinced him to do Dolly Parton. But one little nip slip changed his attitude forever.
“It was a total disaster,” he laughs. “I think I was the first person to have a wardrobe malfunction. I was doing Marilyn in the pink dress from ‘Diamonds Are a Girl’s Best Friend’ and every time I raised my arms, my nipples showed. The producer was watching me with his hands over his eyes and I thought, ‘Oh this is great.’ I’d already done Marilyn in a couple of gay bars and I knew I was the best ever. I was a diva, girl. That is really the day when I learned humility.”
Convinced he’d blown his chances, he was persuaded to give it another shot — with a twist.
“I turned it into a comedy act,” he says. “We had big neon poles around the stage and I pretended that my boobs got stuck and I had to pull one around the other side. Everyone was walking in, the performers and the staff, and they were all standing there laughing.”
He was hired on the spot and for a year, he performed in the famed La Ronde Showroom, a stage once graced by Judy Garland and Frank Sinatra. When the Florida show closed, Smith was invited to join the cast in Hollywood — and finally got to play Marilyn.
“In Hollywood, if you’re Marilyn, you’re the star of the show. She’s on everything. She’s on toilet paper!” he laughs. “It was the best thing that could have ever happened because I really learned to perfect character makeup. I did Norma Desmond, Marilyn, Dolly — I even got to do Lucille Ball because she personally asked me to impersonate her when she was at a birthday party for Milton Berle at the club. If the room had blown up that night, we would’ve lost so much Hollywood royalty. The room was just packed full of people. It really was amazing.”
Ball never got to see his impersonation of her because shortly after her request, she passed away. To this day, he has a picture of the star from a scene in Mame, which she autographed, “To Wayne, Love Lucy.” It’s one of his most treasured pieces of career memorabilia. “I broke up with a boyfriend while I was performing in Aruba and had a friend break into my apartment in Los Angeles to make sure he got that picture back. And he did!”
In 1989 — shortly after If I Could Turn Back Time was released — Smith ventured into performing as Cher. After a year abroad where he performed Marilyn, Dolly and Cher, he landed back in Dallas and has been performing here ever since: First at Moby Dick, then at Woody’s, Mickey’s, and his latest home, the restaurant/cabaret Hungdinger. For much of his time in Dallas, Smith performed as Cher five to six nights per week up and down the Strip.
“I’ve had an incredible, incredible career here in Dallas. I really have never wanted for work. I’m giving up five nights a week to go to ‘what if’ in Ohio,” he says.
He may not know what lies ahead, but he’s sure of his mark on the world.
“I used to feel like I haven’t done anything with my life. But my dad actually taught me a long time ago that I had. He asked me how many people I’d performed for over the years,” Smith recalls. Between all the shows at La Cage and on TV, they estimated that he’d entertained millions of people. “My dad asked me, ‘Did you make those people forget their problems for a little bit and laugh? How many people can say that?’”
It dawned on him that what he does is much more than just sing a bit in clubs.
“Yeah, some people say I’m an attention whore, or just a drag queen, or just a female impersonator, but you know what? I’ve had people come up to me who are sick or had somebody die in their family to thank me for helping them forget their problems, even if just for a little while. I’m a court jester. I just wear different outfits,” he says.
But though he’s leaving town, this is definitely not the end of Smith — wherever he may end up.
“I’m not Cher, I’ve never claimed to be. But if I can mimic it enough that people still like it, I’ll keep doing it if I’m in a wheelchair gummin’ it to I Got You Babe.”
And that’s something plenty of people would gladly pay to see.
This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition January 7, 2011.
Wayne, you are making the right decision to move on with your career. We’ve seen it over and over again here in Dallas and it’s getting rather stale. In Vegas you can do the same bits over and over because you mostly have a new audience every night. But not in Dallas and certainly not in a smaller city in Ohio. So, everything old will be new again there, but only for awhile. If you freshen up your bits and try something new, you may have a great new home. Good luck
wayne, You have been my friend for the last fifteen years
since i came to dallas. I remember how you and i met and how we
have become known for our duet After All. That song will always be
our song no matter what people say. I will miss you more than you
know. you have touched my life so much more than you know.
Wayne, you will truly be missed here in “Big D”. I’m so glad I got to know you as an acquaintance, even if it was just in the bars and clubs. And after reading this extremely impressive article, I can definitely tell that you have touched the lives of so many, during your career in Los Angeles and here in Dallas.
From a fellow Lucille Ball and Cher fan to you my friend—May you find peace and happiness in your future endeavors.
Take Care and God Bless!
Best of luck Wayne. You will be missed here in Dallas! Hopefully you will come back to visit!
Hi honey – Great article. I’m really sorry that you are leaving. And hey, they forgot to mention that you were a featured author at am appreciation event for your Starbabies book and toy collection in Waxahachie. I still have my Marilyn Star! Already missing you. Take care.
Hi, Wayne, it has been great getting to know you and Ben.
Best wishes. I grew up in Ohio, and I know you will be very happy
there, and you will be an awesome addition to Ohio’s talent pool.
Please keep in touch. Big hugs. . . Doug and K.W.
Meow-Meow, Judy!! You are one jealous bitch!
You must not look as good as Wayne does in a dress. Wayne
honey, you will be missed. You truly are a Dallas
institution.
I appreciate Wayne Smith because I am one of the millions he entertained and made laugh. Wayne made a positive contribution and will always be a Dallas treasure.
i did not know you very well (or at all, except running
into you at the clubs, etc.), but you were always a very nice and
kind person to me. it seems like you have a good heart. i always
enjoyed your shows! good luck with whatever the future
holds!
Wayne, you’ve always been a sweetheart to me and to everyone else I’ve ever seen you interact with. I still remember how shocked I was when I first saw you in Mickey’s 5 years ago and realized that that was you singing! So often in our world we forget that simple kindness goes a long way. I think there are a lot of folks out there that can probably credit you with showing them that our community can be gracious, charming and a helluva lot of fun! Best of luck to you and your husband. I know that Columbus will love you just as much as we do.
I just want to let you know, that you truly make a difference in people ‘s lives from not only the stage but the great heart that you have.. YOU really get who you are and what you have to give Wayne all ways live with PASSION as you so very much do.
wayne smith, I have never been a big female impersonator/drag queen fan, but i have great appreciation for the art of the transformation, and the work put in by a talented performer, as many of you and your peers are.
More importantly, when i first came to dallas after my mom’s death, and just coming out, with very little money, and in debt to my ears after college, i recall, in a very clicky community, you looked at me whenever we crossed paths at random, and were kind, and spoke, and smiled.; (and you didnt even know me..), all with the entourage you seemed to always have
.I am now a business owner.. still not too crazy about the dallas scene and the arrogance, and clicks.. but i will always smile when i see your face.. I am amazed..
and it is great to hear about this 3 years marriage of yours.. once again, you make me smile… to think that i was beginning to believe at 44, i might not find HIM… but you did.. so can I, once again..
Continue to be the light.. you are really a star, sugar.
have fun!!!!!
WHO? Seriously? I do remember walking into a Sushi bar when he was “singing”. It was … well… not impressive. Dallas tends to be blind to the real talents in the gay community.
Enjoy Ohio Wayne. Can’t say as they’ll feel the same.