The right wing scapegoats LGBTs, sacrificing our rights on their altar of power. The goats have to keep fighting back if we want equality
HARDY HABERMAN | Flagging Left
Land of the free and home of the brave? Maybe not. Just look at all the issues being flogged both in the legislature and in the press. All are to try to stifle the freedom of LGBT people.
• DOMA: The cynically named “Defense of Marriage Act” which has nothing to do with defending marriage and everything to do with denying rights to LGBT couples.
Worse, even though the president said it is unconstitutional, the GOP, lead by House Speaker John Boehner, wants to spend $500,000 of our dollars to defend a bill the Department of Justice sees as indefensible.
• Special Rights for Gays: This is a catch phrase being used again and again by the right wing to somehow try to justify discrimination in just about any way possible.
For example in many states if you are a landlord, you are not allowed to deny someone the right to rent an apartment — but only if they are listed as a protected class. That’s how the law works in this screwy society.
So, if I am a member of a racial minority, a woman or disabled, I can seek legal recourse against the landlord. Because LGBT people are not included in that list in most states, we have no recourse.
In the eyes of the right wing, granting us the same rights as any other minority is “special rights.” Worse still is the fact that we are denied rights in our relationships that other Americans get simply because they are straight.
• Hate Crimes: The right fights tooth and nail to keep LGBT people from being included in hate crimes legislation wherever it is proposed. Just as bad, some have even tried to dissect us and include gays and lesbians while leaving transgender folks out.
To add LGBT people to the list of victims of hate crimes apparently denies the far right their freedom to hate whoever they want.
• Ex-Gay Therapy: This discredited practice still gets funding and support from fundamentalist churches and right-wing organizations that are actively working to “cure” gays and lesbians. Our lives have been compared to the problem with “second-hand smoke” and devalued by rhetoric from the right.
They spread the lie that our sexual orientation is a choice, and therefore something we can change at will.
This list could go on and on, but the point is that for some reason the conservatives are spending huge piles of cash to actively deny us the rights and privileges they enjoy. Why do they spend so much of their time and energy working to take away rights from us?
Politically, it is an easy talking point. The right has found that anti-LGBT rhetoric can whip a crowd into a frenzy faster than talking about real issues. In the world of media image, nothing is as valued by the right as a cheering crowd and a sound bite on TV or radio.
Economically, LGBT issues can make a quick buck for the right wing. Whether it is raising funds to “defeat the gay agenda” or funds to “rescue the poor sinners from the gay lifestyle,” donations flow when the anti-LGBT rhetoric rings out.
And psychologically, it’s an easy hot button. The whole existence of LGBT people makes many heterosexuals nervous. I am not a psychologist, but I would lay odds that for many there are insecurities around their own sexual orientation that drives this.
The mere fact that the “gay panic” defense works in the judicial system as an excuse for assault and murder points to this as an underlying problem.
But I suspect the real reason the right has seized on LGBT rights as their favorite topic is more troubling: It’s what I call the “bogie man” factor.
Fear is a very good motivator. Just look at how we Americans cheerfully gave up our privacy rights after 9/11. We were afraid and we were told giving up our privacy would get us security.
The results are still very much open for debate.
Meanwhile politicians, pundits and clergy have found their available list of “bogie men” dwindling. Back in the 1950s, communists were the enemy and the cause of every ill under the sun. In the ’60s “hippies” were looked on as the root cause of problems.
In the last decade, “terrorists” became the main thing to fear, though it was a thinly disguised version of xenophobia and racism.
Now, one of the only things to fear is us, the LGBTS. We have become the bogie man for the current crop of fear mongers. We are being pointed to as the root of many of societies ills — and that is scapegoating, plain and simple.
Scapegoats are an easy way to explain complex problems, and in a world of 20-second sound bites, they are all too tempting for politicians, pundits and clergy to ignore.
Well, it’s time we goats stopped behaving like sheep and started butting our heads up against the people who would deny us our rights. If we do not continue to push back, we will continue to have our rights sacrificed on the alter of politics. And this goat is not ready for that.
Hardy Haberman is a longtime local LGBT activist and a member of Stonewall Democrats of Dallas. His blog is at https://dungeondiary.blogspot.com.
The problem is religion, not politics. There are religious Democrats and religious Republicans. Their literal biblical beliefs cause our difficulties, not their political party beliefs. The only way to counter that is with conversation, not confrontation. You can’t “fight” away religious dogma, you have to enlighten people. “pushing back” has no effect on the problem and suggesting it’s a “Republican” problem ignores the real problem – in fact, it’s a waste of time, money and energy.
There is no political solution to LGBT Equality. Our obligation is to educate, enlighten and enroll – regardless of political affiliation. Talking to family, friends, neighbors, co-workers and even strangers is productive. Asking for understanding and support is productive. Getting people to join us is productive.
It takes courage to have meaningful conversations, “butting our heads” does not.
Nice, Andrew, but doesnt work. We can no longer “asK’ for rights and acceptance. We must now DEMAND through the courts-its the only way we’ll win. You do know that in some southern states blacks wouldnt be able to marry whites if the voters got to vote, right? Bigotry through religion and racism runs deep.
Screw the religious right (mostly republicans)-they will die off in a few years – hopefully dying while the courts give us full rights!
No more mr nice gay!!
Norman, might i remind you it is 2011. Demanding doesn’t accomplish anything. It’s childish. Court battles are important, but Hardy was suggesting engaging the enemy. That’s just very 1960s thinking. Literal-interpretation Christians are the problem. There’s is no progress “fighting” with them or even talking to them, you’re correct – we just wait for them to die. But, the majority of Americans are not religiously infected and the crazy literalists are less than one-third of the population.
Hardy is focusing on the one-third that is not changeable. That’s not very bright.
One has to understand that there are truly two forms of power in this country: first, military power and secondly, economic power. While there is no LGBT army taking up arms to fight real wars for their supposedly Constitutionally guaranteed rights, there is a great deal of economic power in the LGBT community. It is there that if united, real change can come about.
For example: Target is well known for repeatedly supporting anti-LGBT candidates with their PAC. As a result, I refuse to shop at Target and will instead spend my money elsewhere. Why? I refuse to donate to my own doom. Now then, I am only one person, and I don’t carry the economic clout of a Texas oil baron. But if I were part of a united LGBT front that said, “no that’s unacceptable and we will not buy from you any longer” then things might be different. That’s because if the LGBT community collectively made Target bleed red on the bottom line, their stockholders would ask “WTF” and demand change — irregardless of their sexual preference. That’s because here in America, money is the one thing that people will always pay heed to.
There are countless other examples of Target-like stores, large and small. Do you shop at one? No matter how great a deal you think you are getting, if you do and you are a member of the LGBT community, part of your hard-earned money is going towards your own repression. And that’s no bargain at any price.