LGBTQ rights pioneer Kay Lahusen holding a photo of her lifelong partner, the late Barbara Gittings
Katherine “Kay” Lahusen, 91, died in gentle hospice care at Chester County Hospital on Wednesday, May 26, 2021, after a brief illness. She was born in Cincinnati in January 1930 and, as an infant, was adopted and raised by her grandparents. After graduating from Ohio State University, she moved to Boston, where she met her lifelong partner, Barbara Gittings, at a Daughters of Bilitis picnic in 1961.
Kay and Barbara lived variously in New York, Philadelphia and Wilmington, Del. They were gay activists from the early days of the Gay Rights movement in the U.S., marching openly in picket lines in Washington, D.C., and Philadelphia in the early 1960s. Kay became known as the first openly gay photojournalist. Her photos documenting these and many later activities were printed in various gay publications including Gay (a national weekly) and The Ladder. Her photos are archived in the New York Public Library, which drew upon them for the 2019 book, Love and Resistance: Out of the Closet into the Stonewall Era.
Kay researched and wrote the book Gay Crusaders (1972), which was published under her pseudonym Kay Tobin with a male “co-author” — her friend, Randy Wicker — added to help the book be publicly accepted. The original research materials for that book are also archived at the New York Public Library.
Kay and Barbara remained activists throughout their lives. Shortly before Barbara’s death in 2007, the couple moved to Kendal at Longwood, Kennett Square Penn. After Barbara’s death, Kay continued to contribute to gay history, giving many interviews, especially about their work with the American Psychiatric Association and the American Library Association. She collaborated in 2015 with Tracy Baim to produce Barbara Gittings, Gay Pioneer, a biography of Barbara which used many of Kay’s photos.
Kay decorated her room at Kendal with dozens of photographs, and she would talk about her experiences as a gay activist at the drop of a hat, even regaling the nurses at Chester County Hospital with her story just days before her death.
Kay is survived by her trusted friends Judith Armstrong of Hockessin, Del., John Cunningham of Philadelphia, Ada Bello of Philadelphia, and James Oakes of Secane, Penn., and by the many, many friends, acquaintances, and admirers too numerous to name here who made up her chosen family.
Kay’s remains will rest in the Congressional Cemetery in Washington, D.C., alongside her partner’s, in a bench designed to express their love for each other and their dedication to showing that Gay is Good. Due to COVID-19, a public memorial will be postponed.
In lieu of flowers, Kay would welcome your contributions to William Way LGBT Community Center, 1315 Spruce St., Philadelphia, Penn., 19107, or to Kennett Area Community Service, P.O.Box 1025, Kennett Square, Penn., 19348 for their local food cupboard.
Condolences may be left at FoundsFuneralHome.com.
