Minister at iconic black Methodist church in Dallas steps down amid allegations he coerced young men
DAVID WEBB | Contributing Writer
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A lawsuit filed against St. Luke Community United Methodist Church in Dallas and its former senior pastor, the Rev. Tyrone D. Gordon, portrays the pastoral office of the predominantly African-American church in Southeast Dallas as a hotbed of homosexual harassment.
St. Luke, with 5,000 members, is one of the largest African-American churches in the North Texas Annual Conference of the United Methodist Church, which is also named as a defendant in the lawsuit. St. Luke isn’t one of the six gay-affirming Methodist churches in the Dallas area, but its congregation includes some LGBT members.
The Rev. Zan Holmes, who preceded Gordon’s appointment in 2002 as senior pastor at St. Luke, is a respected civil rights leader. The church is known as a center for community activism, and it has attracted prominent members such as Dallas County Commissioner John Wiley Price and former Dallas Mayor Ron Kirk, a U.S. trade representative appointed by President Barack Obama.
Thus far, church leaders at St. Luke and the North Texas Conference have remained silent about the lawsuit, as has Gordon, who announced his resignation as senior pastor from St. Luke in January to take effect on Wednesday, Feb. 15. On that date Holmes, who has also kept silent, will return as interim minister.
W. Earl Bledsoe, the bishop of the North Texas Conference, released a statement at the time of the resignation noting Gordon gave up his credentials during the investigation of complaints lodged against him by St. Luke church members.
The Rev. Eric Folkerth, pastor of the gay-affirmative Northaven United Methodist Church in Dallas, said in a telephone interview this week that his reaction to the news of the lawsuit was one of “deep sadness and sorrow.” Folkerth said he hopes the controversy will be viewed as a “sexual abuse of authority,” rather than in terms of the sexual orientation involved.
“I am hoping, praying and trusting that hopefully all of this will be dealt with appropriately in the church and in the legal system,” Folkerth said.
The Rev. Cameron Jerrod Greer, 26, who is a graduate student at SMU’s Perkins School of Theology and a pastor ministering at Cockrell Hill United Methodist Church, alleges in the lawsuit, filed on Feb. 3 in 101st District Court in Dallas, that Gordon, 53, sexually harassed him and several other young male members of the church for at least seven years.
In the petition filed by Dallas attorney and St. Luke church member Marilynn Mayse, Greer alleges that in 2003 and 2004, beginning when Greer was 18, Gordon rubbed his penis up against Greer’s buttocks on more than one occasion in front of four other young men who appeared to regard the activity as “normal behavior.”
In another instance, Greer alleges he observed a young man wiping sweat off of Gordon’s body as the pastor stood in his underwear with his pants lowered. Greer, who worked as an audiovisual technician at St. Luke, alleges in the lawsuit that he observed numerous instances of inappropriate behavior by Gordon involving young men.
The incidents often occurred in Gordon’s church office and sometimes between two Sunday services, according to the lawsuit.
Greer also alleges that Gordon invited him to his home in August 2004 when the pastor’s wife was out of town to discuss the young man’s plans to become a Methodist minister. Gordon allegedly prepared one of Greer’s favorite meals, spaghetti, and invited the young man to watch a movie with him. While sitting on the sofa Gordon allegedly moved closer to Greer but was interrupted by the arrival of one of Gordon’s two daughters.
In two other alleged incidents in 2009 and 2010, Greer claims in the lawsuit that, while he was serving as a pastor at First United Methodist Church in Seagoville, he visited Gordon at St. Luke, where Gordon insisted on hugging him and rubbed his penis against him. Greer adds in the petition that he asked Gordon to be a guest preacher at the Seagoville church, and Gordon implied that Greer would have to do “something” for him in return.
The lawsuit alleges that St. Luke church leaders had been informed about complaints of sexual misconduct and sexual harassment made by church employees and members against Gordon as early as 2006, but they took no action. It also claims that church leaders failed to protect Greer and other young men from Gordon’s alleged harassment.
In the lawsuit, Greer explains his delay in lodging complaints against Gordon as part of a process that was required to address the “issues” and to begin a “quest toward healing.”
The lawsuit, which accuses church officials of breach of duties, claims Greer has suffered “severe emotional distress, mental pain and suffering, and adverse physical consequences, physical pain and suffering.” It seeks unspecified punitive damages.
The lawsuit describes Gordon as a “predator” who used his spiritual authority to “coerce certain young male members and employees” into “sexual acts and relationships for his own personal sexual gratification.”
Gordon, who was born in Los Angeles, received a bachelor’s degree from Bishop College in Dallas, and he did his graduate work at Fuller
Theological Seminary in Pasadena, Calif. He came to St. Luke as senior pastor after serving as senior pastor of St. Mark United Methodist Church in Wichita, Kan.
This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition February 10, 2012.
Let’s hope that every person who saw, suspected or suffered harassment by Rev. Gordon will find the courage and strength to speak up, call police, expose wrongdoing, protect others and start healing.
David Clohessy, Director, SNAP, Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests, (7234 Arsenal Street, St. Louis MO 63143), 314 566 9790 cell (SNAPclohessy@aol.com)
Please everyone, forgive this pastor for his alleged horseplaying behavior. He’s very close to God and he acts like a child and that’s it! But if we theorize his actions into bad labels, then we are being intolerant towards a church member, and that member is a pastor who prays for us everyday to God. If he does something that we feel uncomfortable with, just ask him to stop or show signs of withdrawal, and he’ll surely grasp the limits we want to set. Thought I would just like to share a few personal ideas. Thank you for reading!!!
There are two sides (at least) to every story. So far the plaintiff’s side is the only one that has been heard. There will always be circumstances where something might be funny at the time, but is used against you when someone you least expect turns on you. This might run along the same lines as the lady who accused her immediate supervisor of rubbing against her. The full story was that they were in a crowded elevator and she backed into him. When you’re cornered like that, there isn’t any way to avoid physical contact. I’m not defending Rev. Gordon, but I *am* defending his right to tell his side of the story. The mere wording of the complaint as quoted in this article makes it look pretty trumped up to me.
Hopefully others who may have been harmed by Pastor Tyrone Gordon will also have the courage to come forward and contact police, know matter how long ago the abuse took place.
Keep in mind your silence only hurts, and by speaking up there is a chance for healing, exposing the truth, and therefore protecting others. Also know that you are not alone, and there is hope and help.
Judy Jones, SNAP Midwest Associate Director, USA, 636-433-2511
“Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests” and all clergy.
(SNAP, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests, is the world’s oldest and largest support group for clergy abuse victims.
SNAP was founded in 1988 and has more than 12,000 members. Despite the word “priest” in our title, we have members who were molested by religious figures of all denominations, including nuns, rabbis, bishops, and Protestant ministers and increasingly, victims who were assaulted in a wide range of institutional settings like summer camps, athletic programs, Boy Scouts, etc. Our website is SNAPnetwork.org)
An: I did read and that’s time I’ll never get back. What brainless drivel.
An Ngyan: “Please everyone, forgive this pastor for his alleged horseplaying behavior.”
That’s almost exacly what former assistant coach Jerry Sandusky said about his own behavior. He was talking about his interaction with children. Rev. Gordon is dealing with adults who have a legitimate right to complain when a organizational superior is making them, at the very least, feel uncomfortable. I recall Congressman Mark Foley’s molester, a Catholic priest, made the same explanation, that it was just “guy stuff”. I don’t agree. When someone rugs their dick against your ass uninvited, it’s far from guy stuff whether you are straight or gay.
The truth will prevail. Until it is resolved, I will hold my opinion, However until it is proven I will and cannot judge Pastor Gordon. In autuality none of us can judge anyone for we have all sinned and fallen short. The only difference is that our sins are not on the news or in the newspaper.
I agree alice…the only thing we can do is pray for this man. Some of us and all of us need help. We just need different help. No man on earth or on this website can judge Pastor Gordon for his sins. What if every sin we committed went in the newspaper or on the news. No sin is bigger or small than the next. Sin is sin.