Grace Community UCC, which lost 72% of members over support for gay rights and got $15K donation from Cathedral, still needs a miracle
Happily-ever-after is a plot device used in fairy tales to button up the story and leave the reader feeling that everything is right with the world.
Although our real-world stories sometimes have happy outcomes, they rarely fall into the “happily ever after” category. Real life is a little messier.
A few months ago I told a story about a church in St. Paul, Minn., that was struggling to keep its doors open after it took the courageous step of becoming LGBTQ-affirming and -accepting.
The Rev. Oliver White had signed onto the United Church of Christ resolution affirming “equal marriage rights for all people, regardless of gender.”
That got him a less than happily ever after. Seventy-two percent of his congregation walked out and left him and his church holding the bag — a big bag of debt.
That’s where the fairy tale aspect of the story starts. The Cathedral of Hope UCC here in Dallas came to the rescue and raised a whopping $15,000 to bring the equity loan payments for White’s church current.
That would have been a nifty story with a really nice happy ending, were it not for a couple of things.
First, the church is still looking at a loan with an exorbitant 23.5 percent interest rate, and worse still the lender wants a payment of $165,000 on June 1 or the church will owe $170,000 the following month and face foreclosure.
Meanwhile, the Rev. White and his congregation have been looking for a bank that will refinance the property and save their church.
Situated in the poorest neighborhood in St. Paul, Grace Community Church isn’t an appealing prospect for a bank. Although the congregation has shown they can sustain a decent monthly income, the banks would like to see a two- or three-year track record of fiscal responsibility, and that is not an option right now.
Secondly, the church has problems other than financial. Because of the publicity from their decision to be affirming of LGBTQ rights, and recent national notoriety brought on by the story in March of their surprise support, White has been barraged with a stream of threatening phone calls, vile emails and worse.
During a recent wedding held at the church, people drove by in the vehicle and shouted anti-gay epithets as shots rang out. Luckily no one was injured, and ironically it was a straight wedding.
As I have said previously, sometimes we in the LGBTQ community forget that those who stand with us for justice sometimes find themselves paying a price.
When I spoke with White, he lamented that his church was so distracted by its financial woes, yet he emphasized how important he felt his congregation’s position of equality was. It is a matter of justice, and that is something Oliver White is passionate about. He is also passionate about his church. It is a small beacon of hope in a pocket of despair. It is the heart of that small community.
After looking at the fundraising efforts of the Obama campaign, White was struck by an idea. Perhaps seeking a large donation was a problem, but seeking very small ones, as little as a dollar a person might result in the real happy ending they are seeking.
The math is simple, if 200,000 people sent a dollar each, the problem would be solved. The reality is less simple, and the struggle for survival of a small justice-driven church in a predominantly African-American neighborhood of St. Paul is far from a fairy tale.
Just in case there is a chance for a “happily ever after,” the church’s address is Grace Community United Church, 986 Forest St., St Paul, MN 55106.
Might be worth a dollar or two to see how the story comes out.
Hardy Haberman is a longtime local LGBT activist and board member of the Woodhull Freedom Alliance. His blog is at DungeonDiary.blogspot.com.
This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition May 4, 2012.
How do we go about contributing? It seems there are plenty of people in this country who could donate to help this church out of debt?
Glen, you can send a check to the church’s address in the story: Grace Community United Church, 986 Forest St., St Paul, MN 55106.
I feel for this poor church in St. Paul having taken a stand and now facing a fall out for it. Why is it everyone applauds the UCC denomination for being so GLBT accepting when HRC reports that a mere 20% of the over 6,000 churches in UCC are “Open and Affirming”? Sure COH is the largest GLBT welcoming church in the world, but they are still only a tiny part of a denomination that isn’t fully welcoming. Why be a part of a denomination that has to vote on whether you belong or not? Look at the Methodists? I would rather be a part of a group that has and always will welcome me. The Metropolitan Community Churches (MCC) have always been fully welcoming and affirming. There are many independent churches that are also fully welcoming, lots of them locally. We have choices and it is time to choose to leave those who don’t fully welcome us.
Here is the links to HRC report on UCC and UCC’s own website for Open and Affirming (ONA) churches.
https://www.hrc.org/resources/entry/stances-of-faiths-on-lgbt-issues-united-church-of-christ
https://www.ucccoalition.org/programs/ona/who/list/
We are sending a modest check and hope that many others do also. If you live in Minnesota or plan to visit the Twin Cities, why not worship at Grace Community United Church. Your very presence will witness to God’s love.
If this church really thinks there should be a “Q” on the end of LGBT . . . that Christians can be “queers” . . . then it is neither affirming of LGBT folk nor of Gospel teachings. “Queer” is hate speech, despite desperate attempts to “reclaim” it. Stigma has no place among the lambs of Christ. I’ll be damned if I attend any church, regardless of ideology, that considers me a freak!
sent this story to The Ellen Show…maybe that will help – and Ill send a $50 chk
Please keep the church address posted so people can send money.
Don, many places consider the Q to stand for Questioning. Quatrefoil Library in St. Paul uses that designation. At least they did. I have not been there in quite awhile.